Saturday, March 7, 2009

Farewell Dear Friend

I'm writing this post with a heavy heart. We lost Hj N, a dear jemaah in our Haj group to big C today.

No words could express our shock, sadness and grief when we received the call about his passing this morning. All I could think of was his wife Z, and his three beautiful girls and how they have to be strong to face this test from God Almighty. In the car back from the funeral just now, ABE just has this to say to me, "I'm going to miss him."

We are all going to miss him. Farewell dear friend...

Semoga roh mu dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama dengan roh-roh orang yang beriman.



Anonymous said...


I was blog hopping from Tireless Mom, hope you don't mind. Just wanna say sorry to hear about the passing of your friend, Innalillah.

Kak Teh said...

Alfatehah. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas rohnya dan dia ditempatkan bersama orang-orang yang beriman.

mamasita said...

Hai Kay.
Certainly its very sad when one's friend kembali ke Rahmatullah.A reminder always to all of us that life is short and sooner or later its our turn.Takziah kepada keluarganya.Brapa umur aruah Hj N?
Semoga roh Hj.N bersama golongan yang kuat beramal salih dan dicucuri rahmat Allah swt.

Ezza Aziz said...

Al Fatehah....semoga roh nya di cucuri rahmat

ray said...

Komen Pak Malim kucing ray yg alim.

Ya, berita pemergian rakan taulan serta orang yg kita kenal memang membuat kita sedih dan mengingatkan kita semula bahawa dunia ini hanya lah tempat persinggahan yg sementara.

kay_leeda said...

Dear Playing with Mimi,

Hi..thanks for dropping by. And thanks for your kind thoughts too.

kay_leeda said...

Kak Teh,

InshaAllah..kita sama-sama doakan.

kay_leeda said...

Dear Mamasita,

It was a sad day for all of us in the group. The men folks felt it more. Dulu they all berempat, now dah tinggal bertiga sahaja. Hj N was 52 and the eldest in our group of four couples/families.

InshaAllah kita sama-samalah doakan kesejahteraan dia di sana.

kay_leeda said...

Kak Ezza,

Alhamdulillah, dah dua malam kami bertahlil di rumah arwah. InshaAllah, sama-samalah kita panjatkan doa buat arwah.

kay_leeda said...

Pak Malim kucing ray yang alim,

Silaturahim yang dibina semasa Haji telah membuat kami lebih akrab setelah kembali ke tanah air. Tetapi apa kan daya, Tuhan lebih menyanyangi sahabat kami ni.

Kita hanya boleh merancang, hanya yang berkuasa berhak menentukannya.

tireless mom said...

Dear kay

Innalillahiwainnalillahirijiun. Semoga arwah di cucuri rahmat and ditempatkan di dalam golongan orang beriman.

jabishah said...


Semoga ditempatkan di kalangan org yg soleh... Amin!

Madam Tai Tai said...

Kay, are you talking about Nasir Abd Hamid? I just got a message from my friend in FB that our former colleague Nasir passed away from cancer. Could this be the same person?

kay_leeda said...

Dear TM,

Thanks for the prayers. We've just come back from tahlil at arwah's house. Macam ternampak-nampak he's around.

kay_leeda said...

Dear Jabishah,

IshaAllah..that's all we can pray & hope for him now.


kay_leeda said...

Dear Tai Tai,

I'm not too sure of his full name. We know hims as Tn Hj Muhammad Nasir, was a VP in Ce*com. Same person?

Uncle Lee said...

Hi Kay, it is always sad to lose a friend or loved one.
Regret read of your friend.
Life sometimes can be real tough especially in such cases with kids still young.

You keep well Kay, best regards, Lee.

Madam Tai Tai said...

Hi Kay,

Yup same person. How sad... Alfatihah. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas rohnya.

MrsNordin said...

I just heard about his passing over lunch just now. Then I remembered your posting. I asked my colleagues, "Nasir ni duduk mana?" They said Shah Alam. That's when it occured to me that you could be talking about our En Nasir.

He was a nice chap. It's a shock and sad loss to all of us here at Celcom.

kay_leeda said...

Dear Uncle Lee,

Thanks for your kind words. Yes, it's going to be pretty tough on the children. The youngest child is of the same age as my youngest girl. Infact they are classmates in school. Tears well up whenever I look at her, the one who resembles her father most.

Sad..very sad indeed. Thanks for dropping by Uncle.

You have a good week :)

kay_leeda said...

Tai Tai,

Sad..very sad indeed. But we have to redha for only HE knows what is best.

Kita sama-sama doa untuk kesejahteraan nya di sana.

kay_leeda said...

Dear MrsN,

Arwah has been not well for some time, but he was all private about his pain. Only close relatives and friends knew.

I last met him late last year. He was ok still, boleh make jokes lagi. My hubby has now lost his KUMON buddy. They used to sit outside the centre while waiting for the kids to finish their class and catch up on things.

Yes, it's a sad loss - a good friend, a doting and loving father that he was.

~~~ kay ~~~ said...

semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat ALLAH SWT.

the principal said...


I'm reading a book "Facing Death - A Testimony of a Muslim stricken with Metastic Cancer".

He wrote the book prior to his death. Penuh dgn nasihat & panduan menghadapi kematian.